We mustn’t make the mistake of thinking we can heal our alcoholic/addict parent. That is up to them, and them alone

http://facweb.northseattle.edu/jlearn/HEA%20150/children.htm

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Above all, some days you don’t care what becomes of papa. Better have him come to some harm than to harm someone else, you say grimly or philosophically, according to your mood. The quick sympathy, the feeling of tenderness, when he becomes sober and penitent, is gone. It seems kind of good. Enough to feel sorry for yourself and the children without feeling sorry for papa. You tear out of your heart the image of the man he might have been – the man he was. Like having a tooth pulled, it’s hard, but a relief.

http://silkworth.net/magazine_newspaper/macleans_magazine_dec_15_1946.html

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